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Ladies, I plan to marry a lovely lady?
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bluefishbig asked:
She is single, never married, no kids, 46 years old. She is also a virgin. She has never been intimate with a man before and to be honest I have never made love to a virgin, I’m also 46 years old.
Tags: viagraShe is single, never married, no kids, 46 years old. She is also a virgin. She has never been intimate with a man before and to be honest I have never made love to a virgin, I’m also 46 years old.
I know I have to treat her with care, honesty, understanding, and most of all take my time with her.
The thing that I am worried about is she is going to wear me out to make up for lost time. So do I say a pray before, during or after.
September 1st, 2008 at 4:55 am
I don’t think you should..you never know how you might react to it..just let nature do it’s thing..relax and enjoy..congratulations
September 4th, 2008 at 5:49 am
Congratulations….
September 7th, 2008 at 12:57 pm
she may have a normal sex drive.
decide on viagra afterwards.
just wait and see what happens.
September 9th, 2008 at 1:20 pm
No, you won’t need Viagra. She’s a woman, and although we enjoy having sex with the man we love, she’s not likely to ‘wear you out’. As a woman, she’s more likely to make emotional demands than physical ones.
September 12th, 2008 at 10:30 am
She probably won’t try to “wear you out” anytime in the near future… I haven’t been a virgin for a loooonngngggggg time, but I still *acutely* remember how much the first, second, third times hurt!!!!! Be gentle with her!
September 14th, 2008 at 3:13 pm
Well it’s pretty darn funny for it not to be a joke! Just take it nice and slow. I don’t think viagra is such a good idea if this woman truly is a virgin. What if she becomes nervous, doesn’t want to do anything, and you can’t get down from the situation you got yourself up to?
September 17th, 2008 at 6:07 pm
“Pray without ceasing” like the good book says……..
September 19th, 2008 at 4:39 pm
Congratulations! Do not use viagra. First of all you are right about taking things slow.It will be uncomfortable for her and a bit painful the first time.Remember that she doesn’t know what to expect so you are under no pressure to perform. Be honest and tell her that your not as young as you use to be. You may need a little time to recuperate afterward. If you cuddle and tell her how much you love her and love being married to her she will be very happy. Best of Luck in your marriage!
September 22nd, 2008 at 3:53 pm
She won’t know how to wear you out…she’s never had the experience of wearing a man out.
Since she is a virgin she is going to be very shy about being sexually aggressive. For the first couple of months, you should initiate as often as YOU can handle and set the stage up for how often you would like to have sex.
Don’t give her more than what you wouldn’t do - she’ll get used to it. Get her used to the idea of having sex 2 -3 times a week, or less depending on what you can handle.
You should talk to her about this.
Also, sex for a virgin HURTS! Be extra gentle, buy a brand new bottle of lubricant for your wedding night…and don’t forget to have as much foreplay as possible so she can get “ready,” for the action. Give her the opportunity to come first so she can experience that, and then have your VERY GENTLE way with her after. That way, only your hand would wear out - just a little bit. ; )